I teach courses in energy flow, I told them. Interrogation is not seduction, seduction is the art of setting the stage for two people to choose to reveal themselves to each other. It knows we don’t appreciate things that fall into our laps. This isn’t because the universe is cruel.
Usually what you wish for doesn’t fall in your lap it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to you. In life people wait for good things to come to them. The cure for this disease is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls, and then see if this flower is still so special. They become obsessed with a girl, they’re neither dating nor sleeping it, and then start acting so needy and nervous around her that they end up driving her away. It takes roughly seven hours for a woman to be comfortably led from meet to sex Women actually want sex as much as, if not more than, men, they just don’t want to be pressured, lied to, or made to feel like a slut. What should be avoided at all costs, is not fear, but a fear of fear, which holds people back from taking action and participating in life to its fullest. When men are initially attracted to beauty, most women are initially attracted to status and a man of high status never apologizes of his presence. And that’s what most people lack: having the gut, the gut to go in and just say: I don’t care what happens. What separates an amateur from a champion is the willingness to push through that fear and do it anyway. You will be forced to confront nearly every single thing that defines you. Our social skills determine the course of our lives-our careers, our friends, our family, our children, our happiness- that’s a big area to neglect. If you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you have always gotten.
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